Friday, December 4, 2015

Ask People Out. (Reblog by DJB)

Single folk. 

If you're tired of being single, do yourself a favor. 

Ask people out. Just do it. 

Guys and girls alike, ask people out. Don't wait. Don't hesitate. Don't overthink it. 

Stop putting people on pedestals. No one is too good for you. No one. There are no leagues.

The more you ask people out, the more you'll realize that it's not a big deal. And, you might be surprised by the results.

People like to know that people are interested in them even if the feeling isn't mutual. It's flattering.
(If you're not creepy about it.)

Just be yourself. Talk to people. Ask them out. 
If (and when) someone says no, it might have nothing to do with you. Just roll with it. It doesn't matter.

Rejection only exists if you put people on a pedestal, if you build up hope or expectations. 
If you embrace that you're OK with either yes or no for an answer, you'll undo some of the nervousness that comes with asking. 

Try it. No, do it. You'll be happy that you did.

DJB

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